When 'America's Pastor' Hid His Struggle, and Why Marriages Go Cold
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Thursday, September 17, 2026
Brian reflects on the recently resurfaced story of Max Lucado secretly battling alcohol at the height of his ministry success, drawing out lessons on the danger of hidden shame and the healing power of confession within real community. He processes the tragic deaths of three people, including a well-known reporter, in a Los Angeles news helicopter crash, using it as a reminder of life's brevity and the need to live with eternal urgency. Brian discusses a Gospel Coalition piece on reaching people who consider themselves "spiritual but not religious," offering practical ways the church can meet them in their isolation, and shares Ligon Duncan's case for the pastoral value of expository preaching working through hard topics organically rather than topically singling people out. He warns against emotionally "cold" and silent marriages using a marriage counselor's clip about a man who stopped pursuing intimacy with his wife for eight months without either partner addressing it, and closes with Tim Challies's thoughtful framework for deciding whether to keep reading books by pastors who have been morally disqualified from ministry.
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