Singles

Do you ever feel like God just isn't there? Although our feelings tell us that at times, we shouldn't be driven by our emotions.

The concept of dating is one of the most widely remarked upon and questioned aspects of a Christian walk. Much of the questioning comes from the modern forms of dating as compared to the contextual traditions of biblical times. Although some biblical testimonies of marriage are culturally different than today, the Bible is relevant in providing foundational pieces of truth for a Godly marriage.

Over a hundred years ago, the famous preacher Charles Spurgeon reminded Christians, “Time is short. Eternity is long. It is only reasonable that this short life be lived in the light of eternity.” These words remain true as ever for Christ-followers alive today.

Polyamory is on the rise and it’s something that Christians will be forced to reckon with. We must do so winsomely and compassionately, but we also must be committed to the biblical vision for marriage and family.

Rather than persevering in the lies Satan whispers to us about purity, we must persevere in the spiritual disciplines that can enable us to stand before God in holiness.

Not only do most dating tips conflict with one another, they conflict with how we’re called to live as Christians.

To move from a place of familiarity to intimacy means breaking down walls, and we can do that with any sort of relationship. We can seek a deeper, truer relationship with friends, family, or your spouse. That sort of vulnerability creates a deeper bond between people. It is to be truly known and loved by another, and it is as essential for single people as it is for married couples.

Don’t rush into a relationship and close your eyes and ears. Take the time needed to dig deep.

When it comes to matters of the heart, we are especially vulnerable. Just like God-sent, God-meant relationships can bring us much joy and happiness, devil-sent, devil-meant relationships have the potential to bring intense and lasting pain into our lives. Thankfully, God has given us all the direction we need in His Word to determine in the early stages whether a relationship is God-sent or hell bent.

Whether you’re just starting out or have been dating for years, here are 10 red flags that should prompt you to examine the health of your relationship.

If you’re are realizing that you’ve been receiving for quite a while and your cup is full, then perhaps it’s time to take a brave step into action. Here are a few ways to shift from passive (or consuming) to active within our church bodies.

So what happens if we get engaged? Can we have sex if we fully intend to marry this brother and sister in Christ? Or does the wait-until-you-get-married conviction apply in this case?